I have spoken to this concept a bunch of times, but it’s worth just writing about specifically. Belief is key when it comes to success, and I’m of course writing on the topic of getting bigger and stronger, but it’s true across all domains. The only people who don’t accept this fact are, consequently enough, the people in MOST need of accepting this fact. The “forever skeptics” hamstring themselves by refusing to ever belief in anything, as they refuse to allow themselves the ability to have stupid, unyielding, illogical, reality defying faith in something, which is basically playing life on hard mode. If one is willing to allow themselves to believe in something despite the fact that all logic and reason dictates that it can’t possibly be the case, they are able to transcend MANY limitations and achieve, in turn, unbelievable results. Let’s discuss…
I mean, if you're going to believe in nothing, believe in it with everything you have
The big one
to hone in on, as far as getting bigger and stronger goes, is belief in the
program you are running. I encounter a
LOT of faithless when it comes to programs, and it doesn’t matter WHAT the
program is. People contact me directly
about programs I have run, had success with, and wrote full reviews on and ask
“Is there enough benching in Building The Monolith?” “Can you really get big
and strong using 70% of your 10rm in Deep Water?” “Is 1 set of squats in Super
Squats really enough to grow?” Dude, I
DID it. It clearly works. How are you still doubting it? Because you’ve convinced yourself, through
something you read or heard somewhere, that the program can’t work. And guess what: you’re right. That program isn’t going to work: for
YOU. Because you have no faith in it. And a program you have no faith in is a
program you will not invest yourself in, which, in turn, means it will NOT
WORK. Meanwhile, one you’re willing to
actually believe in will surpass all those “superior programs”, because, for
you, you’ll actually do the things necessary to make yourself grow.
A great
personal example is my experience with “Westside Barbell training”, which I put
in quotes because, of course, I wasn’t training AT Westside, and also because I
was doing things so completely wrong that it was Westside in name only. I was using the competition lifts in my max
effort work, my dynamic effort work was too light, I couldn’t figure out the
difference between supplemental and accessory work, my GPP work was haphazard,
etc etc. And I got the biggest and
strongest I’d ever gotten in my life following it. In 9 months, I went from a 405 deadlift to
540 (without a belt), not being able to hit depth on a 405 squat to a 475
squat, benching 335 to 365, and hit a 235lb strict press. I also upped my bodyweight from 190 to
217. And it’s because, in my mind, I was
“doing Westside Barbell training”, and at that time (the mid 2000s), that was
THE way to train if you wanted to get strong.
And I believed it, because everything I read said as such. And hey, wanna know why I got to 217lbs? Because at 5’9, I saw fellow 5’9 lifter Kroc
was jacked as hell as a 220lb competitor, so I believed that, if I got to 220,
I’d be jacked as hell. I was wrong, of
course, because I didn’t have near the years of training under my belt to turn
all that weight into muscle, but eating in such a way to support growing that
big was getting me strong as hell. Once
again: the power of belief.
Much like how I believed I could eat like Tate to look like Kroc...
Here's
another story: Super Squats. I already
wrote my “Ode to Super Squats”, and I encourage reading it if you haven’t, but
as a quick summary, I ran the program in college, drank a gallon of milk a day
and ate everything I could in our dinning hall.
I put on 12lbs in 6 weeks running the program. Why?
Because I believed I could gain THIRTY pounds in 6 weeks. Because it’s what the book said and, if you
read the book, you know that Randall Strossen employs all the tricks his PhD in
psychology allowed to convince the reader that this was true. And as long as you didn’t approach this as a
“too smart for the world” skeptic, you bought into it, ran the program, and
grew. “But you can’t gain muscle that
fast! It was all fat!” Hey: look at you with your big brain. Shame that’s the only thing that’s big. Because yeah, I didn’t get 12lbs of muscle in
6 weeks, and I’m sure most of it was water, foodmass and glycogen, but know
what I got from the experience? THE EXPERIENCE! I learned how to train harder than I ever
thought possible and eat more than I knew I could ever eat. I got a 6 week brutal/intense crash course in
training AND recovery intensity, and I got to take those lessons with me on all
programs I ran in the future, which was huge for my success. And I even got a little bit of muscle on top
of it, because after I ran the program I set a 10lb PR on my bench. WITHOUT benching for the entire 6 weeks I
ran the program.
And THIS is
the critical element to look for when evaluating programs: is it something you
can believe in? Does something about the
program grab you and assure you that it’s going to work? That it HAS to work? Absent that, it WILL not work. As long as a seed of doubt exists in your mind,
you will not be able to succeed on a program, no matter how well it is laid
out. Your mind will work against your
body, and the perfect rep and set scheme will fail you. Lack of belief is just as powerful as belief,
and you sabotage yourself by your unwillingness to have faith in
SOMETHING. Which is why, when you go
down the exercise science rabbit hole and keep finding studies that contradict
other studies, the conclusion you NEED to draw is that EVERYTHING works: not
that nothing works. With the former, you
give yourself permission to go find the program you like the most that you are
willing to believe in and let the power of that belief carry you to
success. With the latter, you doom
yourself to simply questioning everything and making no progress, because
you’re unwilling to take the chance in believing in something, no matter how
stupid it may be.
No
Go find
something to believe in and get strong.
I feel like part of the reason why people don't 'believe' in their programs is simply that they haven't read a book about strength training in their lives.
ReplyDeleteI personally never believed in 5/3/1 for example - But after actually reading through the entirety of the 5/3/1 and starting Beyond 5/3/1, I am pretty excited to start with 5/3/1 BBBV2 in about 3-5 weeks.
People are getting basing their opinion from what they've heard by youtube 'experts' or on whatever they've read online and not on what the author actually wrote.
100%. People, in turn, have a weird idea about the value of their time. They won't read about a program because they "don't have time", so instead they'll waste MONTHS of time running a program incorrectly vs spend the few hours it woulda taken to sit down, read and understand what they were about to do. Everyone just wants an app to spit out sets and reps, but there's so much more to it.
DeleteWhile I sort of buy into the strength of belief, I think it's more the detrimental effects of self doubt that need to be avoided. And having belief is a sure-fire way of tempering the doubting voices in your head.
DeleteBut on reading strength training books. I actually think I doubt them more after reading them. Not that they won't work, but that they'll work just as well as any other program. But I do leave feeling a bit fleeced after reading a strength training book replete with standardised analogies and specious claims.
Despite taking the time to gripe, I've been enjoying the recent updates, by the by. This one included.
Glad you've enjoyed what's coming along dude. Avoiding that doubt is huge, and I find it helpful to focus so much on the positive aspect of it that the doubt simply CAN'T exist. I think so highly of myself that the sheer notion of failure doesn't exist for me.
DeleteDoes it count if the belief is toward an end goal and not a particular program?
ReplyDeleteFor me, my belief is that a person who can do the following cannot be small and lacking in muscle, even if he *wanted* to be:
Incline Press- 405 x easy reps
Military Press- 275 x easy reps
BB Row- 405 x easy reps
Front Squat- 600 x easy reps
RDL- 500 x easy reps
DB/Hammer Curl- 100 x easy reps
Exact numbers don't matter much. The point is that even if someone never gets numbers like these, the act of *trying* will get them bigger/stronger than they ever thought possible.
There was a dude on t-nation "IsDatNutty" that would espouse a very similar viewpoint. I'm big on pursuing very big goals and growing in the pursuit of them as well. An 800lb deadlift and 300lb strict press have really driven me pretty far.
DeleteAlpha/Alsruhe is probably the best example of this IMO. People like to say that pro bodybuilders "train wrong" (for some reason), but Alpha's training style looks genuinely nutty at first. And yet despite not doing a curl in decades and not caring about his biceps, his biceps are bigger than 99% of people just based on his chin up and carry strength.
DeleteIt's the epitome of not caring about a bodypart, and yet it grows anyway because it has no choice but to get huge just based on your strength.