Friday, April 1, 2022

BEING THAT WHICH DOES

 

In a very rare move for me, this is actually my second attempt to get this concept down in writing, which goes on to demonstrate how “fresh” this is in my head.  I’m still trying to really be able to express it, because, inherently, I understand it and I’m living it, but much like “The Tao”: speaking it destroys it.  So bear with me as we go on this journey together.


Probably gonna be like this

 


As my training and nutrition continue to evolve, I realize that, fundamentally, I want to “be that which does”.   What does this mean?  It’s a simple guiding philosophy for determining the course of action that best suits my goals, which is awesome, because SO many trainees get stuck with analysis paralysis that this works to effectively find the end first and work backwards to get to the method.  Like cheating on a paper maze by starting at the end point and working backwards which, if that metaphor is lost at you, go to any local restaurant and pick up a kid’s menu with a pack of crayons and they will set you straight.  And order the Mac n Cheese.

 

Delicious kids’ menu cuisine aside, “being that which does” is effectively the training and nutritional equivalent of “fake it until you make it”.  You could go classic Aristotle as well and consider it the notion that virtue is what we practice vs what we think or feel, and considering the Greeks made Pankration and Heracles and lifting weights and stuff, they’re pretty good to listen to on this.  When we set out to “be that which does”, we look at what it is that we would want to be DOING, and, in turn, we endeavor to be that which does those exact things.


Being "ancient Greek jacked" may require cleaning some stables

 


Still confused?  Let me talk nutrition.  I eat a diet that is very rich in meat.  I eat a lot of animals: both in terms of capacity and variety.  I apologize for any of my morally vegan/vegetarian readers out there if that offends your sensibilities, but this is the path I’ve chosen.  And why is that?  Because I want to BE that which DOES eat a lot of animals.  Because what eats a lot of animals?  A predator!  And that which does eat a LOT of animals, in terms of variety and capacity, is an apex predator.  They are on top of the food chain.  Yes, a scavenger CAN eat meat, but they are limited to the left behind pieces, rotting in the sun, abandoned by the predator after they have gorged themselves (which, cool science trivia, means scavengers have unique digestive enzymes which allow them to eat putrid meat and not get sick, as a means of evolution…try not to develop those).  A predator’s digestive system is constructed to survive and THRIVE off the meat of others, and in order to satiate this appetite, a predator MUST be accomplished at stalking, fighting, killing and defending the kill so that they can gorge.  By being the being which does eat a lot of animals, I become closer to being the being which does well at stalking, fighting, killing and defending.  And, if I decide to be the being which does eat a lot of gains and starches, I become closer to being the being which does become the prey of the predator.

 

To continue on the nutrition, and bring it a little closer to home, let’s talk “nutritional deviance”, aka cheating.  Say we all buy in on the above: we’re going to become predators.  Cool.  Then cheesecake shows up.  We’ve come to a decision point: do we stick with the plan, or do we have the cheesecake?  Well: do we wish to be the being that does stick with the plan, or the being that cheats?  I’ll tell you: I’ve seen the being which does cheat on their diet: they aren’t the kind of being I wish to be.  I’ve seen the beings that don’t.  I wish to be the being which sticks with the plan.  And once again, this ties in so well with my “no free will” argument (which I’m not unique in presenting): there is no need to “resist” the cheesecake: we are doing EXACTLY what we want to do.  We are pursuing being the being that we wish to be.  To deviate would be to go AGAINST our desires.


And for some, the cheesecake IS the goal

 


I’ll say, flat out, this concept has revolutionized my training.  Those that have read my “More Trouble Than You’re Worth” manifesto of recently know that I laid out some ground rules for my current goals and phase of training, and it included things like starting every day with physical activity, doing conditioning every day, taking all overhead work off the floor, etc.  This was because, yet again, my goal was to become the being which does these things.  It wasn’t so much about the specific biological effects of these protocols, but about the whole person transformative effect that occurs when one is this person.  I get up at 0330 to train because I want to be the person that gets up at 0330 to train.  I do conditioning every day because I want to be the being that does just that.  And what’s cool about this process is that it’s unscripted: there’s no recipe, protocol, program or magic 8-ball to consult to know what the future holds: I’m discovering as I go just exactly what this “being” is like.  And, quite frankly, this being is an awesome being, and I want to be more like the being which does these things, so I continue to do these things.

 

And this guiding principle allows me to make audibles and interesting decisions along the way. I tend to get a wild hair in my training and fixate on some sorta silly challenge for a few weeks and see what I can do.  I was doing a weekly Keg Grace workout for a while, and then went on some tear with 20 rep squat/20 rep deadlift supersets with a bunch of Crossfit WODs tacked on.  Recently, after some Dan John inspiration, I’ve taken to doing a daily set of Tabata kettlebell front squats.  Dan, in his initial Tabata article, sarcastically responded to the question of “if Tabata front squats are so effective, why don’t you do it everyday?” with “give it a try and find out”, to which I said “OK THANKS” and went after it.  Know what I’ve learned about the being which does Tabata KB front squats every day?  That being is in phenomenal shape!  He can run his heart rate far into the red and get it back to baseline in a matter of minutes.  He stays impossibly lean despite putting away enough food for an army.  He recovers from Deep Water workouts (yes, I’m doing those as my baseline and doing these squats on top, and STILL doing daily conditioning) incredibly quick.  He has HUGE quads that get caught on rehband warm-up pants.  The being which does these things is an amazing being.


The look of a man who regrets his own creation


 

There’s no permission needed for this, there is no plan, protocol, no rules, laws, and hardly any principles.  We are simply being that which does.  If being awesome is the goal, let us be that which does awesome things and, in turn, we will transform ourselves into a being that is capable of doing these awesome things because doing awesome things is a matter of practice for this being.  It’s circular, which is perfect, because it’s self-sustaining and self-perpetuating.  We are being what we are doing, and what we are doing is being awesome.

12 comments:

  1. Have you watched "Party Down"? Hilarious sitcom and one of my all-time favorite TV productions from 09/10. Coming back for a reboot this year, too. Handsome bro dude Kyle's advice to sci-fi nerd writer Roman is, "don't do, be."

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    1. I've seen previews for it, but never watched an episode. Looked solid. "Being vs doing" is such a difficult concept for so many western folks to grasp. We raised our kids to start thinking about "what do you want to BE when you grow up", when what we're asking is really "What do you want to do for money when you grow up?" What I DO simply subsidizes what I AM; it's not who I am.

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    2. I went and watched it back and it's actually, "don't want, just be," which is maybe even better. In any case, strong agree on all and my recommendation for the show still stands.

      WR

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    3. Very Buddhist. Desire the root of all suffering and all that. I can dig it.

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  2. The original reply I wrote out was longer than your post.

    I'm pretty big on this idea too. Whenever I have some kind of goal, I try to imagine what a day in the life of "that guy" would look like, or what "that guy" would be doing at where I am now. If you do that then you have an "activity goal" and things become a matter of consistency and effort, rather than just some distant achievement wish list.

    I remember some guy asked Wendler (years ago) if he'd ever try to lift the numbers he used to lift, and Wendler said no. I don't want to eat / I'm not prepared to eat how I know I'd have to eat. And from memory they then started joking about stuff like memories of lying in bed feeling like their stomachs were about to explode, hoping and pleading for it to just settle down just a little, and all the farting, and carrying around wet wipes with you everywhere. On other occasions he also talked about 90%+ consistency being a minimum, and things like not remembering ever missing a squat day for X number of years (I forgot how many but it was a lot of years). If you want to squat 1000lbs, this is the stuff you need to be paying attention to, not the sets and reps.

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    1. Would love to see a long reply dude, but love what you put down here. Summed up well on the need for an activity goal, and Jim has adequately expressed it too. Most often, we all have the ability to achieve our goals: just not the desire to be what it requires to get there.

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  3. Couldn't agree more.

    Last fall I got it in my head that a man who had to carry heavy loads all day would be a very strong individual, and he'd probably look as strong as he was. Reading about your conditioning everyday probably swayed my thoughts as well, but I decided "well I'm just going to do loaded carries everyday". I'd take something from my home gym, or some things, and set an interval timer for whatever I was feeling that day. Some days I'd do uneven farmers walks for 15 rounds of 1 minute. Some days I'd do The Cook Drill, some days I'd do The Eagle or Sparhawk workouts. Some days I'd do bearhug carries for 2+ minute rounds with my 100 lb sandbag. Some days I'd mix in shoulder carries and overhead carries with the bearhug carries. Some days I'd do Tabata carries with the 200 lb sandbag. Some days I'd run the rack carrying all my dumbbells until my grip gave out on each one. Some days I'd say "I'm going to carry X for 1 mile" (really the appropriate lengths of my apartment).

    I'm sure you know what happened... I became much stronger. My grip went through the roof. I could bearhug carry that 100 lb sandbag all day now. My traps and upper back blew up. I noticed my standard workouts required a lot less rest than they used to. I became more like a man who carries heavy things around every day.

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    1. Love that story dude! Totally captures it. You are being that which does.

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  4. Love your writing and in particular the grounding in Aristotle. It's really cool to see someone think deeply about training like you do. I just found your blog recently so I'm excited to go through all your past writing.

    That said, I do think you misapply your principle a bit when you speak of eating meat as being important to the project you outlined of becoming 'that which does'. Modern meat consumption just isn't similar to predation so I think your comparison really falls apart there. If you want to be more like a predator it isn't the meat consumption that you should emulate but instead dedicating time to learning how to track, hunt, kill and dress/prepare your own food. If you think about it going to a grocery store is far more similar to grazing like an herbivore even if you end up filling your cart full of meat than being a predator. There's just no real similarity between an air conditioned walk down brightly lit aisles to select a well packaged and cleanly wrapped rib eye to what predators have to do to eat a similar amount of meat. I mean your average super obese American eats more meat than most people in the world but is about as far from a 'being that does' or a predator as you can get.

    Overall, I do like the principle and really enjoyed the article. Kant is famous for misapplying his own principle so you are in good company on that one =)

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    1. Glad you enjoyed the piece my dude and excited to have you as a reader. I find it interesting you assume I am not a hunter. That said, as Joe Dirt said (and future blog post) "Don't focus on the wrong part of the story", haha

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  5. This was a great read, I've never thought about life in this way before but it really speaks to me. Really complements my current ethos of wanting to achieve my goals more than I want to take the easy route

    If I ever waver I'll remind myself that I am a being who does

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    1. Hell yeah dude! Glad you appreciated it. It was good to finally get it out of my head. It's been my guiding principle as well.

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